I guess no one can really handle honesty even though they claim they are looking for it..your loss ..so in all honesty I have a lot of baggage as I am 100% unemployable disabled - PTSD (under control with my meds).. Many run from this ... I am looking for friends and maybe a snuggle buddy. to start with and let things develop I know what I want and will look till I find it.. I am not one to give you a kiss or with mutual agreement do the "deed" and then all of a sudden say ILU I take those words seriously and will not say them until I really feel it and not until it is a real thing and not something to say to make the other person happy.. if you are that type of a person then don't waste your time... just being honest... I want to know the person in all ways such as around their family, friends, my friends, work and alone people are different on all settings and before making a commitment I need to see all aspects and I can tell when a show is being put on for my benefit.. Side note... I just want to make this clear... I am an American that supports the Constitution and all that it represents in this country I took an oath to protect the constitution against all enemies foreign and domestic... I am PRO 2nd Amendment I WILL NOT date a liberal, Democrat or anyone for that matter.. that is anti-gun, anti-Constitution or that are supporters of Obama and the Democratic party... if you look at history it is the Democrats that are destroying things...